I got you girl......

I think that that statement is the most powerful one you can give a person....maybe even more than I love you.....and sometimes truthfully it is most important in relationships that don't involve love, although it is nice in those too:) But I connected with a new client last night.....we did our consultation by phone....and I instantly liked her a lot....and she and I speak the same language, which is always nice when that happens:) She is going through some marital strife......and she wants to do some coaching.....and the voices in her life are telling her to end her marriage, and they have lots of opinions about her husband, and the circumstance, and what she should do.....and my voice was not that one.....because that wasn't what I was hearing from her......and so I am supporting her taking some time to figure it all out....removing the decision from the pile of overwhelming stuff off of her plate....and a bunch of other things too.....and without divulging details, it was just very apparent that she needed somebody in her corner......supporting HER journey through this.....which is exactly what THIS journey is....the reason my passion has been on fire for this calling, and what I do with coaching, is exactly THIS.....using my extreme pain and suffering for GOOD and helping other women in the throes of marital strife figure out their way some and decide what their story looks like.....what story do they want to write? All of it.....nothing more powerful......because I have had the luxury of knowing early on that all I endured came bearing a purpose:) A reason I was thrown down in that dark pit for a bit......needing to feel all of that, and see all of that.....so I can serve as a salve for another woman or man, that has had a similar thing befall them....and every client I have worked with has had different circumstances......different degrees of all of it....but the commonality is there.......there are so many parts of a story like ours that you cannot know until you do.......people saying in the lives of these people, well if my wife or husband cheated I would kick them to the curb.......much easier to say when your family is not on the line......love is still present......a family exists.......a marriage all of it.....and while that outcome is often the end result, not always.....it is a PERSONAL decision that people need space to make and walk through.......now on the flip side I would never offer to be coaching somebody that was in a black and white situation, snowed by their spouse or unwilling to impart real positive change....that is a different situation....but most of the time my clients step forward with clarity.....but are in the throes of the forest some.....the overwhelming details raining down.....and they just need somebody to say I got you.....by my actions and understanding.....walk along their journey.....holding space for it to unfold in its own time.....and well that is me:) and while my coaching has expanded to wellness also it is all the same.....allowing people to be right where they are....and offering support and space for them to hear their wisdom to find their way beyond some of those spaces......well.....never gets old or less fulfilling for me.....every minute I get to do it lights my fire.....and makes me so completely know I am fulfilling my purpose......the one that was written for me long ago......I know that so completely......every bit of my soul. So I am so excited to work with this woman....and see where her journey takes her......and I feel honored to walk with her...."I got you girl" vibes.....that is what we all need in our lives, in different shapes and forms:) And it is also something I was able to give myself too.......Because I can look in the mirror now, and know that I am saying to myself too, "I got you girl," Fiercely, Magic indeed!