ANOTHER dating event.....OK, you have my attention;-)
- jperuso
- 1 hour ago
- 2 min read
I wrote about a local speed dating event yesterday.....not fully sold on my willingness to take advantage of the opportunity....despite my asking for dating events in this new year;-) But the local one is at a bar.....and has the speed dating part of it....the games etc.....which really might be fun, I am not judging something I know nothing about, but I was definitely on the fence.....and then yesterday, a new coach friend that I recently connected with, posted an event in NJ, not too far from my home, not at a bar.......for a singles mixer! No alcohol, no games to play, just an authentic place for singles to have some conversation, and connection if all goes as intended lol;-) Mix and mingle......and THAT resonated immediately....an immediate YES in my belly.....and it is scheduled before that other event.....early in February.....so I will see what I see, and then decide if that other event is on my docket too, or not......that seems like the plan.......and I do feel like perhaps the Universe and God are trying to get my attention:) As it popped up the day I wrote about all of it and the other event......I have learned to LISTEN better to those things.....and often find myself RIGHT where I belong these days......so perhaps I belong there, and the possibilities are endless......really......I like that there is no alcohol.....that might attract singles that are really serious about connection.....and so I am going to grab my ticket.....it is very reasonably priced, and I trust that if it is meant to be it will be, and if not, then......right....nothing ventured, nothing gained.....if snow disrupts it, or some other force does, then I move along till the next door appears that seems worth stepping through......and maybe I will end up at the Valentine's Day one too....but not sure.....that one doesn't feel as good in my belly as this one does.....but this is the chapter of my life where I take chances, more yes, less no, and let experiences lead the way......I was forever an overthinking, play it safe gal, with all the logical receipts in tow as to why something wasn't a good idea, or was......except in my teen years.....ALMOST all was fair game then lol:) Although even then my boundaries would appear.....but this chapter has brought a sense of ALIVE to my soul.....a place where living has taken on a bolder hue, brighter, lighter, livelier, and so I am taking that opportunity to go all in......one life to live, and my own life to live.....and I don't think I will ever regret the chances I took vs the ones I didn't.......so yes......this dating event is a YES....and I am listening....and letting the way appear.......always letting the way lead MY way.....:) Happy Sunday! xo

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