I won't judge you......

I believe the world needs less judgement and more understanding....more compassion for the human condition.....and the only thing I normally catch myself judging is ugly behavior toward somebody else.....gosh I don't like that, and have trouble understanding that.....but I normally come around to less judgement surrounding it, and realize that it is comes from a place within them.....a place that isn't so pretty......and a place that was caused by something....but overall I do my best to hear people, understand what they are saying....where they are coming from.....understanding we are all flawed and fabulous, and sometimes all at once:) And what made me think of this this morning is thinking that people are so hesitant to share their truth, whether it be with the folks they know.....or on social media.....and specifically the single folks, the dating ones, and then the guy disappears again if they share on their feed, and I am sure there is shame or embarrassment or all of the rest....but really there doesn't need to be any of that....because what others think should not drive us.....and we should not apologize for working through our human condition.....it is not easy to be human.....and every stop along the way matters....even the ones that feel like missteps......in fact I have and still will go a step further, and say that I don't believe in mistakes....at all....I believe that maybe there are different paths we could have lived, if free will hadn't stepped forward in other folks or ourselves.....choose your own adventure is my favorite way to think of it.....like turn to page 50 and go to the jungle.......page 75 to the beach:) You get the idea.....And maybe there are different realities playing out alongside our own....the universe is vast, and complex and there is so much we have yet to learn.....but I believe that we should live our lives without the fear of judgement......because I have learned the things people judge are absurd anyway....lol:) And way off base anyway......so you might as well be free to live your own life....and when you do, somebody may screenshot your post, or your text, and send it to a friend with an eye roll emoji.....but who cares......that speaks about them not you.....what a total waste of time and energy.....most times I believe we all are just doing the best we can do at any given moment.....this weekend was a long and quiet one......opting to bounce around with my kids, and sorta chill some on the other side of the first week of school. And it felt perfect.....so this morning finds me musing and hoping people live their truths out loud....on their feed if they wish, and feel the freedom to do that.....knowing that each step is your own.....you should not make apologies about the ones that shifted or changed....that is a part of it too.....we often think the things that don't last are mistakes....but often those are catalysts! I feel that so clearly about the relationship I was just in.....the unhealed parts of me attracting it.....and the healed parts setting me free:) And life is kinda like that....and we need to utilize whatever tests find us to move forward! I try and be the friend that people can say whatever to, and I don't spill their secrets or judge.....be THAT friend.....life is messy and beautiful, and amazing and challenging.....and we all need a safe place to go:) Have a great day:)