Let's Date!

I have written about my deep disdain for the current dating structure....it is made for people that want to hook up, and have casual encounters, and do that on repeat.....that is NOT me....and the entire system lacks the part where people connect, and that is IN person.....so recently a co worker's husband has a fella at work, one she can vouch for, that I may go on a blind date with soon, she said he is a great guy, so I am in the investigation phase currently lol:)......and would be totally open to blind dating too some........but I also had mentioned the idea of speed dating a little ways back....which for me I think would be an amazing way to actually FEEL a person.....and their energy, and all of that....I speak energy these days;-) and that is what pulled to me, when I wrote about it before....and that still does......I am comfortable in my own skin, completely, and as my own self now.....happy to step out there authentically myself, and see if they vibes resonate:) And I found an amazing event close to home....at the end of this month that called to me, a really unique twist on the speed dating concept.....and I am excited about what possibilities the night could hold.....and at any rate it will get me out there.....there are not a lot of places for people in my age group to meet people......and a bar is kind of the last place I want that to happen....and the beauty of it all is that there is no urgency.....I trust the journey completely.....the signs that may lead me to new places I am supposed to be.....and speaking of FEELING, I am learning to feel my journey so much more completely these days too.......following the inclinations, and the signs....and walking toward the things I am supposed to....and away from the things I need to........and this speed dating notion had been on my mind for awhile now, sorta popping in there....and then I had lunch a little while back with a friend I only see from time to time, and she mentioned it too for me.....feeling it might be the thing....so I am following the signs...I randomly saw this event last night, and the timing and the energy of the event resonate....and I have written about the change that has taken over my life in the last year....thinking of where I was this time last year and not really believing the growth I have experienced right now....and feeling glad I am not in that same place anymore, and that is the beauty of growth, it is endless, IF you are willing to do the work, and I will likely be sitting here, this time next year, feeling the same about my growth game.....being well evolved beyond the woman I am this morning.....and as we shift and grow we vibrate things out of our lives.....I truly believe that.....when two people are no longer an energetic match, their journey ends....and that is in all of our relationships....romantic, friendships, even family dynamics.....and if I did not already believe that energy was real, and everything is energy, I certainly do now.....our energy dictates what we find ourselves surrounded by....and as I step into this new era, I am already finding new friendships forming, new connections, and new people that are finding their way to me....at a rapid rate...and things that feel meant for me, as I close the door on my last year....the new year will absolutely feel NEW in so many ways....that I know! And it is easy to wall myself up, and shy away from dating and all of those things, especially in light of what I just walked through again....but that is not me.....I won't shy away from challenging myself to grow....and get out there, and be open to the magic of possibility.....forever faithful that MY person, my REAL deal person, is out there somewhere, waiting for his ride or die too:) Have a great day! :)