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Speed Dating!

  • jperuso
  • Oct 13, 2025
  • 2 min read

This has been a topic that has been circling my wagon if you will for a bit;-).....I have written many times about my disdain for online dating.....and it gets worse maybe as time goes on.....and even though I can feel some things through text, or through online presence, so much of it cannot be FELT.....and I have also written about my desire to stumble upon an old fashioned love story, when the time is right.....meeting somebody in an authentic way....and I continue to trust that if that is my path it will appear:) I write none of this today with a desire to speed up, or control the process at all.....I can honestly say that I am quite content, fully, in my single life......it is peaceful and all my own....and as I type that I just had a huge AHA! Having written in the past about the contrast that lives within me.....on one hand I feel so completely that my hardwire settings were for marriage......deep commitment, the forever happily ever after kind.....and yet.....here I am fully single and loving that too! Both calling to different parts of me.....but as I just typed that before, I realize it is because of my Taurus that I love being single.....the predictability of my environment, the stability, the calm, and the deep and grounded peace that lives in my home, is intoxicating to my fixed Taurean self;-) Loving this chapter of PEACE so completely......but I also have a Leo Moon and fire lives inside of me too lol:) So passion and love call to both parts of me, in different ways too.....plus I am still young so:).....but I digress lol:) As usual;-) SO speed dating......I believe, having no experience in it....would be a better way to FEEL a connection.....intuitively GET who a person is.....So that is my plan! Not sure when.....but I want to try it as a part of my single odyssey....and then the other weekend, I had lunch with a great friend....who has some intuitive gifts also and she said that it was speaking to her for me too.....she brought it up out of the blue, I did not mention it to her, or that I had been thinking of it.......and I tend to pay attention to the divine nods I get these days.....when stuff speaks to me, and comes up more than once, I pay attention.....so at some point, when the right event presents itself, I will give it a whirl.....if only to have a good story to tell, or a blog entry:) But I can attest to the fact that the current dating system is deeply flawed....in ALL of the ways.......I had actually thought of contacting businesses in our tri state area......and getting a directory together of single people.....and hosting mixers etc.....because FB dating or any of the other ones match you with people SO far away....and I can guarantee that other people feel like I do, right here in this area! SO maybe I will at some point.....but for now....I have speed dating on my radar at some point......because.....well....why not! :) Enjoy the day! :)

 
 
 

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