The cheerleader....

I was a cheerleader in high school......and in a league when I was younger, and it hit me the other day that the irony of that is not lost on me......it was sort of one of those realizations that evokes a little smirk, my realizing that cheering for others in some way or another, has been a thing all of my life.....literally in all of its forms.....and I loved cheerleading then and now.....but I have realized too, along that same understanding, that the people we expect to support us, often don't......I have had a lot of support in my business, support that is humbling and that I am deeply grateful for, but a good portion of that coming from those that don't know me all that well, or strangers even......social media allowing for that to be so......I have had many "cheerleaders" of my own show up, and support me along the way......and it has been SO appreciated......and I have had some people, that are close to me in my life, remain silent.....not supporting, not asking about it, not..........while I spend my time cheering for them always.......and I will never be involved in or lower myself to return the energy they are extending......I will continue to step in energy that resonates with me......and that is to support......I have never been subject to emotions that can contribute to the things that can affect how supportive a person can be to another.......sometimes we mirror stuff for people that is hard for them to look at.....and I get that......so I stay in my own lane and do me.....and build a life that feels more like me every day......and I don't worry about who is showing up as a support, and who isn't......as I have said so often, what people do, or not do, is a direct reflection of their own internal battles.......so fully......not personal.....so taking it personally is a waste of time and energy, and not necessary in any way......and I have chosen to not allow the lack of support I feel from some people to hurt me......and focus on the sea of cheerleaders that do show up:) And support and "get" the vision I have in this chapter.......and that is always, in my opinion, the better use of our own energy......and we have that human part, that wants to be understood, seen......heard.......validated some in our journey, especially when it includes a new vision and direction........but that is just our human selves, it is really not necessary.....as long as we understand that vision, that is all we need! And I have heard other artists and creator peeps lament about the people closest to them not supporting their craft, and while I get it......it really isn't personal.......I have become fascinated by energetics, in all of its forms, and I deeply believe that our energy attracts our people.....and sometimes the people we think we are supposed to vibe with, just aren't........and that is OK......people can only meet you where they have met themselves......so if your vision resonates with them, no matter what walk of life they come from, or what position they hold in your life, then that is everything.......most people don't feel duty to show up for their people either, they need to feel that pull......I can get down with whatever a person is doing, and support it out of my love for them, but not everybody is wired that way.....and I have accepted that......but having said all that, people do need cheerleaders.....and people to support them, that is true! So if you can be that person for another person, do it whenever you are able! I am grateful to be feeling better this morning, that odd little bug rolling out, and I am back at it today! Long day, work then my coaching night at Dr. Pathak's office, but excited to be feeling well enough to do it all! AND Excited to grab my workout today, I missed it;-) Enjoy your day! :)