The places that fit.......

The older I get the more important it is for me to be right where I belong......and with the people that I belong around......and as I travel I am shown where that is.....and I trust the unfolding completely.....knowing I am led to those people now, and grateful for the people who have stayed in my orbit after my divorce.....the ones that could not only withstand but also embrace the evolution of my spirit.....and I am currently sitting in a lake house typing this.....about to watch the sunrise......we had a girl's night to celebrate a birthday of one of our dear co workers.....and it was the perfect night....and the perfect space to do it. It is an absolutely stunning spot, and the house is beautiful.....and most of the people were people I have known for 20 years....and have seen the evolution of them too....their stories unfolding, as we have traveled through our professional and personal lives together.....and one of them was a new friend, that has become treasured pretty quickly.....finding her way into our hearts so quickly.....and I love when I am able to be in places where I feel I can fully be me....and last night was in line with that.....We had so much fun! And my boy is at a church retreat for the weekend, also being fully himself and being loved for it....and my girl had a long overdue sleepover with her Mimi and Pop, also getting to be her best self.....and I love that for all of us......and yesterday morning I had a long chat with somebody about something that I love to talk about.....having so much come from it....deep diving.....but again.....one of the places that fit.....and isn't that everything.....feeling that feeling of resonance.....the place that calls to the deeper part of us...and this weekend felt like a place to stop and catch my breath and connect to that.,...fully.....completely.....and so we did. My entire little family....and I am excited to pick my kids up in a little bit, and hear all about their adventures......I am also hatching some holiday plans for the three of us already to do on the weekends we are together....and am excited as I feel the holiday season take hold....such a special time.....and being able to fully be myself in this part of my life is my requirement...I have spent lots of time in this life, in uncomfortable situations where I had to alter myself to fit there.....and well.....life is too short for such things....I fully trust the trajectory of my journey and who I journey with now....no shades of gray any longer.....We are all gifted traveling companions and I am clear on who mine are....and sometimes they are not who you think they will be, or should be.....but they appear as they should....and being in this lake house also feels like a reminder of my own big dreams.....foreshadowing and my dream of one day having a lake house of my own......waking up to the sunrise each day and watching the light glitter on the water.....Just feeling blessed and aligned.....and love watching the story unfold.......xoxo