You MUST let go...........

I wrote about not giving up yesterday and then did my video about it too....but there was another theme that stepped forward.....and I have people reach out to me often, either affirming what it is I do each day,.....or needing some advice about divorce etc....and I had somebody reach out yesterday....and I could sense how stuck they were in the things they could not change.....and I offered up this advice.....because I felt it was sound.....you MUST let go.....getting caught in the stuff you cannot change is the fastest way to staying stuck, miserable, and the fastest way to remain static, and unable to change.....divorce particularly is wildly unfair.......the ways are ENDLESS.....especially for the person who doesn't choose it....which was this person's position also.....and I guess in their reaching out, and my attempting to impart some words to help, it made me reflect on my own journey again, and realize the shifts that were powerful......I speak of surrender, consistency, and mindset often because they are the most powerful in our arsenal.....and when you harness that you are on your way to great things! Mindset.....mindset.....and more mindset.....and also the power that is found in focusing on YOURSELF......when we get divorced it can be tempting to be focused on our ex, and what they are doing or not doing, or the external stuff that happens to us and our lives.....but really just focusing on us, and how we show up is the way.....over and over......working toward feeding our new life in healthy ways....starving the old life......and finding movement, and finding as many things as we can that make our soul sing! So I am always happy when I can help somebody that is walking in the path that I once did.....it all prompted me further into wanting to create a course, I have had some ideas for awhile related to a few different things....it is always the tech part that catches me lol:) But I am going to push past my own mindset and resistance.....the power is there right;-) and force myself to navigate some of that.....and figure out a way to create some course content.....I know it would have helped me at certain points too! I am honored that people are reaching out, and people are referring me to folks in need....that is my main goal each day.....and when I can do that it feels good.....so yesterday we celebrated my gal, I got to cook, and entertain which I love..and then this morning church is in order, and I am hoping to hike since it is warmer, and then I have a fun zoom this afternoon on a topic I super interested in, can't wait to check it out! More cooking and chilling with my kiddos, life is good:) Happy Sunday:)